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Minister Jarryia Doyle
54th Church Anniversary
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Pastor Courtland Younger
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Pastor Courtland Younger
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Elder Carvin Ayers
Our lives are full of choices. From the small things, life-changing things, we make decisions every day. Sometimes we fall short of making “Better Choices “Join Pastor Courtland in the Better Life series.
Sunday Worship Sermon | January 21, 2024
Pastor Courtland Younger
We are to produce spiritual virtues like love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. In that we must know the importance of the Holy Spirit in our lives. The presence of the Holy Spirit produces faith, a fight and fruit.
Paul said he fought the good fight, he finished his course and he kept the faith. Even some of the greatest leaders in history may have thought about quitting, but they like many of us kept fighting and believing in spite of life’s challenges. Our finish line is ahead of us…so finish your race.
Summary Of Recovery: The Beatitudes (Matthew 5:3-12)
REALIZE I’m not God; I admit I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable
EARNESTLY believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recover
CONSCIOUSLY choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control
OPENLY examine and confess my faults to myself, to God, and to someone I trust
VOLUNTARILY submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask Him to remove my character defects
EVALUATE all my relationships; offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others except when to do so would harm them or others
RESERVE a daily time with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the power to do it
YIELD myself to God to be used to bring the good News to others by both my example and my words
WHY GOD ALLOWED MY PAIN
- He’s given me a FREE WILL (Deuteronomy 1:2-27)
- To get my ATTENTION (Proverbs 20:30; 2 Corinthians 7:9)
- To teach me to DEPEND ON HIM (2 Corinthians 1:8-10; Psalm 119:71)
- To give me A MINISTRY TO OTHERS (2 Corinthians 1:4; Genesis 50:20)
HOW TO USE MY PAIN TO HELP OTHERS (1 Peter 3:15; Galatians 6:1-2)
- BE HUMBLE
- BE REAL
- DON’T LECTURE
Pastor Courtland shares Principle #7 – Maintaining Momentum. Reserve a daily time with God.
“RELAPSE” – falling back into a self-defeating pattern
How it happens:
- Complacency
- Confusion
- Compromise
- Catastrophe
- Reverting to willpower (Galatians 3:3; Zechariah 4:6)
- Ignoring one of the steps (Galatians 5:7)
- Trying to recover without support (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10; Hebrews 10:25)
- Becoming prideful (Proverbs 16:18; 1 Corinthians 10:12)
Reserve a DAILY TIME with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and gain THE POWER to do it. (Mark 14:38)
- EVALUATION (2 Corinthians 13:5; Lamentations 3:40)
- Physical: WHAT IS MY BODY TELLING ME?
- Emotional: WHAT AM I FEELING RIGHT NOW?
- Relational: AM I AT PEACE WITH EVERYONE?
- Spiritual: AM I RELYING ON GOD MOMENT BY MOMENT?
When:
- SPOT CHECK – ANYTIME
- DAILY REVIEW
- ANNUAL CHECKUP
- MEDITATION
“SLOWING DOWN long enough to hear God. (Psalm 1:1-3; Psalm 115:11)
- PRAYER (Matthew 6:8-13)
Pastor Courtland shares Principle #6 – Evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness to those who’ve hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others except when to do so would harm them or others.
FORGIVE THOSE WHO’VE HURT ME
WHY?
1. Because GOD HAS FORGIVEN ME (Colossians 3:13)
2. Because RESENTMENT DOESN’T WORK (Job 5:2; Job 18:4; Job 21:23-25)
3. Because I NEED FORGIVENESS (Mark 11:25)
HOW?
1. REVEAL my hurt “Make a list of those who’ve harmed me and what they said… thought…did.
2. RELEASE my offender (Mark 18:21-22) // “Empty chair” technique
3. REPLACE my hurt with God’s peace (Colossians 3:15)
MAKE AMENDS TO THOSE I’VE HURT
WHY?
“Watch out that no bitterness takes root among you, for as it springs up it causes deep trouble hurting many in their spiritual lives. Hebrews 12:15 (LB)
HOW?
1. Make a list of those I’ve harmed and what I did
Debts? Broken promises? Over controlling? Over possessive? Hypercritical? Abusive verbally? Emotionally? Physically? Forgetting? Unfaithful? Lying?
2. Think how I’d want others to make amends to me (Luke 6:31)
- The right TIME (Ecclesiastes 8:6)
- The right PLACE (Ephesians 4:15)
- Is it APPROPRIATE? (Proverbs 12:18)
3. Refocus my life (Job 11:13-16)
Pastor Courtland shares Principle #5 – Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask him to remove my Character Defects.
WHERE DO MY CHARACTER DEFECTS COME FROM?
- My Chromosomes – Genetics explain predisposition but don’t excuse sin!
- My Circumstances – Character defects are often attempts to fill unmet needs.
- My Choices – Character defects are often positive qualities being misused.
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO CHANGE THEM?
HOW DO I COOPERATE WITH GOD’S CHANGE PROCESS?
“…Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Romans 12:2
THE REASON FOR THIS STEP
1. Guilt destroys my CONFIDENCE
2. Guilt damages my RELATIONSHIPS
3. Guilt keeps me STUCK IN THE PAST
HOW TO DO THIS STEP
Pastor Courtland shares Principle #3 – Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control. Join as we look at the hang-ups that typically keep us from surrendering our lives to God.
WHAT COULD KEEP ME FROM TAKING THIS STEP?
1. PRIDE: I don’t want to admit I need help (Proverbs 18:12)
2. GUILT: I’m ashamed to ask God for help (Psalm 40:12)
3. FEAR: I’m afraid of what I’d have to give up (Mark 8:36)
4. WORRY: I confuse the decision phase with the problem-solving phase (Philippians 1:8)
5. DOUBT: My faith seems so small (Matthew 17:20)
HOW DO I TAKE THIS STEP?
1. I accept GOD’S SON as my Savior (Acts 16:31)
2. I accept GOD’S WORD as my Standard (2 Timothy 3:16)
3. I accept GOD’S WILL as my Strategy (Psalm 40:8)
4. I accept GOD’S POWER as my Strength (Philippians 4:13)
Where to get help when you hurt is the second sermon in this 8 part series.
Pastor Courtland shares Principle #2 – Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recover. (Hebrews 11:6) God uses three things to get our attention: Crisis, Confrontation, and Catastrophe.
1. Acknowledge God’s Existence (Romans 1:20)
2. Understand God’s Character (Colossians 1:15-17; Psalm 103:13-14)
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Here are three things about God’s character that will help you recover: 1) God knows all about your situation; 2) God cares about your situation; and 3) God can change you and your situation. (Ephesians 1:20)
3. Accept God’s Offer to Help (2 Timothy 1:7; Philippians 2:13)